About Bonnie

Having been in practice for many years, and feeling very privileged to get to do work that touches me deeply, I have found my passion is in helping adults feel great and couples have relationships that are satisfying, something I believe we all want.

My training is extensive, such that I can honestly call myself an expert in some areas. To call oneself an expert in psychology, you need education + supervision + experience. Receiving a doctorate in counseling from Lehigh University in 1978 and then taking extensive continuing education in the areas of work which were of greatest interest to me, I was personally trained by Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., Ellyn Bader, Ph.D., Peter Pearson, Ph.D., John Gottman, Ph.D., Neil Jacobsen, Ph.D., David Schnarch, Ph.D. and others.

For twenty years, I taught other mental health professionals at the masters level, Ph.D. level and post-doctoral therapists how to work with individuals and couples in the graduate programs of Santa Clara University and the Institute of Transpersonal Psychology.

Being strongly motivated to offer additional ways to help the people with whom I work, over recent years, I have offered groups for couples or for women, workshops for couples, those about to be married, about sex, fun/play/joy and now offer two others: SoulCollage and Guided Autobiography. Please see the details about these workshops under Services offered. I hope you can join me at one of these venues.

As a result of the training I have had and the work I have done, I was asked with Sandra Borrelli-Kerner, MFT, to write for the professional literature, a chapter in a book edited by Randolph Charlton, M.D. and Irv Yalom, M.D., Treating sexual disorders, “Couple therapy of sexual disorders.”

I have also written, Bountiful Women: Large Women’s Secrets for Living the Life They Desire, published in 2000, a celebratory book of psychological and practical strategies large women [defined as wearing size 14 and above] have found or developed to handle challenging situations. This book was awarded the prestigious Independent Publishers Press Award as the best book of the year on women’s issues.

To keep up to the minute about my thoughts and observations, I shall be writing a regular blog, Bountiful living! Please stop by and let me know what you think.

About Brodie


Many therapists invite their dog to join them in the office to enhance everyone’s comfort level — physically and emotionally. Meet Brodie, a border terrier, born in 2010. He will sleep on the floor or in your lap, depending on what you prefer. Just in case it matters, he has hair, not fur, and does not shed. If you prefer that he stay separate from you, just say the word.

In a Wall Street Journal article, “The Doctor’s Dog Will See You Now”, December 20, 2010, Melinda Beck said, “A small but growing number of psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers and other therapists are bringing their dogs to work in their private practices, where they help calm patients down, cheer them up and offer a happy distraction with a wagging tail . . . . Research shows that a few minutes of stroking a pet dog decreases cortisol, the stress hormone, in both the human and the dog. It also increases prolactin and oxytocin, hormones that govern nurturing and security, as well as serotonin and norepinephrine, neurotransmitters that boost mood.”

Brodie and I look forward to seeing you.